I'm Looking for a partner to grow old with, not a one-night stand or friends with benefits deal, prefer Bottom, Might be Versatile too,I prefer someone who is able to maintain a strong intimate relationship although intimacy isn't the most important part of a relationship its however, I'm also looking for a serious relationship with someone who would like to share my home. I'm finding it hard for women to emotionally connect with today's lifestyles well I'm old fashioned and I'm surely looking for the same Lol. How hard is it hard to love and be loved in return? The holidays are quickly approaching, let's meet, plan on several dates and spend them together.